How to make a guy think about you through text
When you’re so entertained by your own life, engaged with your own life, satisfied within your own life that you’re busy loving life and it’s natural to give him space because you’re not waiting around for him. Waiting two days to text him back will not rouse his interest, it will probably annoy him. What rouses a man’s intense interest is a woman who is fulfilled and busy with her life to the point that he really needs to work his way in … she doesn’t just dump everything she has going on in her life overboard the second a man enters the picture.
Now let’s talk about texts that will make him obsess over you.
1. A funny text.
Humor is a great way to bond, and men love a sharp, funny, lighthearted woman.
You could send a funny meme or article or a joke. Just don’t too this too frequently, otherwise, you’ll just end up in a funny banter type of relationship.
You can inject humor at times, but you also want to connect on a real level and leave room for flirting and getting to know each other.
2. A seductive text
Most women are afraid of showing interest, but showing interest isn’t a bad thing. Being desperate is a bad thing.
What are you doing is a boring question … what would you be doing if I was there with you, is an alluring one.
You don’t need to be graphic or overtly sexual. Just something intriguing with sexual undertones will do the trick. If this is a guy you just started dating, it’s a great way to implant yourself on his mind for the entire day. If it’s a guy you want to be dating, he’ll know he has a green light and won’t be rejected if he pursues you.
3. An upbeat text
Men love a happy, confident woman. And men move toward what feels good. If it feels good to be around you, he’ll want to be around you. If it feels good to text you, he’ll want to text you. Send him something positive and upbeat.
If he asks how your day is going, don’t give a laundry list of things that went wrong that day. You can acknowledge you got off to a rough start but then inject something positive and say you’re excited to show the rest of this day who’s boss!
4. The visual
Men are visual creatures so anything you can say that will get him visualizing you will go a long way.
Something along the lines of, “I’m drenched after my workout class, gotta shower. Talk later!”
Don’t go overboard, especially if this is a new relationship. Just keep is subtle and “unintentional.” You were just mentioning that you were taking a shower, you didn’t know that this would be so evocative for him!
And unless this guy is your boyfriend, I would caution against sending any explicit photos because if you’re in the early stages then chances are you don’t know him super well just yet and once something is out there, you can never get it back.
5. The flirty text
If this is a guy you aren’t dating yet, then you want to give him the green light to pursue you. Men are terrified of rejection so it’s important for you to show a little interest without going overboard
Shoot him a compliment, like “I just saw the picture you uploaded and wow, looking good!” Followed by a winky face emoji, or say something subtly seductive.
And if you are already dating, then flirt it up! Flirting is what rouses his desire and gets him thinking about you all day. It’s also fun and lighthearted and enjoyable.
6. The interesting question text
Take it beyond generic flirty banter and say something that will really get him to think, like “What would you do tomorrow if you woke up with no fear?”
Or do something silly like talking to each other using only emojis.
A rule of thumb when it comes to how to get a guy to be interested in you is this: be interesting.
7. The compliment
Believe it or not, men love compliments too … and they receive them far less often than women do!
Say something to make him feel good. Again, don’t be afraid of showing too much interest. If a guy is interested in you, then you showing interest will not be interpreted as a bad thing!
Here are some examples:
“I love your smile. And your eyes. Just FYI.”
“OK, I need you to list a few things that are wrong with you because I can’t find any!”
“Stop looking so hot in the pics you post. You’re killing me over here!”
8. The appreciation text
Men are starved for appreciation, this is something we talk about a lot on the site.
If a man doesn’t feel appreciated by a woman, he will not want to be in a relationship with her. Period.
Men want to be appreciated for who they are and what they do for you.
No matter what stage of a relationship you’re in, it’s crucial to show appreciation. Some examples are:
“Thank you for being you. You really inspire me.”
“Thank you so much for taking me to that amazing restaurant. That was the best meal I’ve had in a while!”
There you have it, texts to make him absolutely obsessed with you. Above all, it’s not just about the texts, it’s about you. It’s about your mindset and mentality. It’s about how you feel about yourself and your life. If you feel bad about yourself and want a man to make you feel good, then that energy will transmit to others, even via text. If you’re happy and fulfilled and love your life, that will also come across.
The next issue you need to be away of is at some point, your guy will ask himself: is this the woman I want to commit to? His answer will determine the fate of your relationship. Do you know what makes a man see a woman as girlfriend material? If not, you need to read this right now: The #1 Things Men Desire in a Woman
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